We had the same considerations. I don’t want to preempt anything for you, the decision is yours to make, but perhaps as an addition:
For sound insulation, take a look at this table: Schallschutz Außenwand Ytong
You can see that it is mainly, almost only, influenced by the windows. For a better feeling, you can easily use the PP4 with a bulk density of 0.50 instead of PP2 with 0.35, which really makes a difference. With that, you are also significantly better off than Poroton T9. Whether U-Haus has the P4 or an equivalent, I doubt it. As far as I know, they only have their own large-format blocks, just P2 0.35.
Poroton is also crumbly, but I find the styrofoam issue with Liapor more problematic, especially for exterior use with special dowels, spacers, etc. If Hauser had monolithic Liapor for the exterior, it would have been his choice with us.