I believe there are pros and cons for every building material. You won't get around having to decide for yourself what is important TO YOU and making your choice accordingly.
I grew up in a Ytong house and felt quite comfortable there. The downside was, especially after my brother played trumpet and I played clarinet, that Ytong is not exactly the best when it comes to sound insulation. Although I have to say: for a single-family house in a quiet area, that argument is negligible. We still like each other in the family despite the trumpet and clarinet overlapping ;-)
Now I live again in a Ytong house, but in a four-family house. There, the poor sound insulation is a whole different issue...
But I have always been enthusiastic about wooden houses. I like wood, I like the indoor climate, and I like that there are no drying times. My boyfriend feels the same. Therefore, it was clear for us from the start: we are building a wooden house! It doesn’t have to look like a log cabin, we don’t want that, definitely not rustic *yuck*! But that is possible too. We didn’t bother at all with any kinds of stones or inquire about corresponding trades, but were with wooden house builders right from the beginning. Since we now have one who also builds wooden basements, it was only logical for us to make the basement out of wood as well. There, in the utility rooms (storage, technical room, and workshop), you will also notice that it is a wooden house, because the walls will stay as they are, wood in industrial quality, and the floor will be MDF boards. The rest will get Fermacell with clay plaster.
But that was our decision. We are convinced of it. However, I am not so blinded that I don’t also see the advantages of a masonry house.
Therefore: you have to make the fundamental decision yourself (wood or stone); if stone, then which one and then find the corresponding house builder. I don’t think anyone here will give you a clear statement: do this, it’s the very best!!!
And if someone does, don’t take it seriously ;-)
If you ask me, I’ll bore you to death about how great a wooden house is, how long people have already been living that way in Scandinavia, how wonderful the thermal insulation is, that you don’t have to chase slots, the great indoor climate from the start, and so on.
Ask Nordlys, then it sounds different :-D But it’s not wrong either.