Ok, my last post to you here...
I, I, I...
I don’t think I have replied to you.
Ok, I’m trying to make clear to you why I spoke as an example of myself. It was supposed to refute your claim
No one needs half a mental hour between private life and work. That’s been talked into people.
Usually, one counterexample is enough to refute such a sweeping statement. I gave you that with ME, it certainly was not primarily about me in particular – I assumed that was clear.
Maybe read everything from me for once or keep silent!?! For example #59, what I say about commuting.
I have read everything from you – and at least about the mentioned post #59 I can only say: unfortunately.
I would also like to justify that, because contrary to what you claim
I am not arrogant
unfortunately the opposite applies. Well, then I’ll give you a few samples from the post mentioned, which suggests otherwise:
What is criticized here, if anything, is your intended savings rate.
Is it not arrogant, for example, to criticize a personal savings rate derived from individual circumstances? That is applying one’s own standards to judge and condemn those of another person whose circumstances one does not know – that is arrogance.
I don’t know the wage level in Bavaria/Munich.
Ok, no problem, but nevertheless a few lines later you come with an evaluation of his behavior, followed by a claim about the affordability of plots of land – without even having a clue about the local circumstances (in this case in the Munich area, for example prices over 1000 EUR/sqm), with the friendly reference to modesty, which suggests that he is not:
and yes, you are whining at a high level. You could easily finance a very expensive plot in 2-3 years, and if the house wish is then realistically modest, build normally and confidently like most of us do.
By this point, you really shoot the bird. “People like you,” no arrogance, right?
This points allocation is precisely meant to weed out people like you.
... or maybe here after all?
You belong to the nouveau riche.
Because that definitely comes across as if you were the authority deciding that. Nouveau riche are not necessarily academics, even in Munich. And the income for two people who studied, for example, in the technical field is fairly average – and there are several technology companies in Munich. So please keep things in perspective and take off the envy glasses. Yes, there certainly are many people who have less available, but is it the OP’s fault that those people did not study and get a correspondingly well-paid job? Yes, that may be unfair, but it certainly doesn’t justify blaming the OP for it. And for that reason, he has every right – and it’s not whining at a high level – to view the situation from his perspective. Or should all your whining/complaints about various things always be dismissed with the argument that you are “whining at a high level” because, unfortunately, there are still people who have less than you? One can certainly say that he has a solid, fairly comfortable starting position, ok, but “You belong to the nouveau riche” just comes across as derogatory and arrogant...
And at the latest here, even a neutral observer would find it hard NOT to speak of arrogance – at least that is what I would say:
And just because there are people like you with a good salary, that doesn’t mean that others with less or more points deserve a house less. No one is lured, but someone who earned a cheaper plot more than you is rather made possible
“...earned more than you...” That’s not arrogance? Well, I don’t know... Apart from the fact that I find it difficult to claim that about someone you don’t know, but how exactly do you define “earned”? By salary? For which he and his wife also each pay the top tax rate? Do you know, for example, whether the OP cares for relatives himself, engages socially in other ways, and thus perhaps contributes more to society than couple X-Y-Z, who received a plot through a local’s scheme and otherwise don’t give a damn about their fellow human beings?
You just nurture your “enemy images,” right? Average salary in the profession, inconveniently even higher than your own -> not possible, that cannot be “earned.” Cross-industry payment injustices are not the OP’s fault...
And finally, then this:
You unfortunately see yourselves as victims, but you are not. Just because you have your values (credit limit) doesn’t mean your view is the right one.
Otherwise, shut up
Nope, I won’t let you silence me because you are not in a position to do so....