Since I am now also in this "stupid" situation, I would like to present my opinion as a newcomer to the Ländle in contrast to what was written above.
Three years ago, I came to the edge of the Alb for work. At that time, I was desperately looking for an apartment. The market was swept clean, and I found a nice apartment in a small town about 15 km away from my workplace.
A little later, I started looking for plots of land and was already shocked by the prices.
So I began to look at smaller and rural communities where I could afford a plot and even a house on it. Unfortunately, I do not live in these communities and am not a native. My employer, on the other hand, is very glad that I came here!
And that is exactly what annoys me. As a newcomer, you often come because of a job. You cannot always choose an apartment or place of residence. In addition, there are very few rental properties in rural areas. I also do not want to have to move in order to be considered a local. My current apartment is nice, and moving is expensive!
Conclusion: At my workplace, I cannot afford a plot of land, and in the countryside, I am not allowed to apply. I would very much like to integrate into a community, participate in club life, and have my primary residence there. I also bring offspring. The local model deliberately excludes me here, and I find that very unfortunate. A list with criteria might be better in this case.