Pinkiponk, I thought you didn’t want to have guests upstairs? They’re supposed to walk past your bathroom down to the guest bathroom?
Really, the whole thing is so half-baked and so poorly thought out, I just can’t keep up. And you can’t fix all of that with nice furnishings. And then I also have a hard time with your attitude of “it’s all not that important, it’ll be fine, with my husband it’ll be nice, whatever.”
Is this really just an investment property that you’ll more or less be forced to move into because that’s how it’s done? Then I wouldn’t build. You’re happy in the rental apartment and need to invest money. There would be other options. Either I consciously build to rent out or I invest in a way that I can always afford things with my money in old age. For great trips, an RV, an apartment in the south to escape the winter. You’re +/- 60, with a lot of luck you still have 30 years. I would calculate how to spend the money pleasantly, on things that give me joy. The last shirt has no pockets! And with me, and obviously not only with me, the impression arises that the house is not being built out of joy and love for the house, but because real estate is currently such a good investment. They are, but only if you don’t want to touch your money for a long time or if you’re fulfilling a dream with the house. I don’t know if it’s the best solution for you. After 27 pages, I’ve gotten a different impression.