That all looks very good, but it will fundamentally change when the planned 2 children arrive.
Then there’s no more 900 EUR living expenses per month, and both working full-time plus a side job.
Also keep in mind that demands will increase over time. In your mid-20s you’re still content with little, that changes later... and especially with children.
Also with the studies. I don’t want to offend anyone, but with us (Electrical Engineering) only 40% made it.
Counting on graduation before even taking the first exam... that’s quite ambitious...
Calculate the "bad case" (not the worst case) again and consider whether you trust yourself to manage it. The bad case will look like this: you will have to give up a lot for many years, including for the children. If that works for you, then you can get started.
Can some savings still be found on the house? Does it need to have a basement? Does it need to have a garage?
Thank you very much for the comment, especially for the critical questioning.
Regarding his income: His income will probably increase in the next few years from currently just under 80k to probably 90-100k. Whether he can keep the side job when there are two children remains to be seen.
Regarding her degree: If the studies do not work out, which I don’t believe, she could probably return to her previous job; the current job market situation looks quite good, meaning €2000 net per month in the bad or worst case. In the good case, with two children in 5 years (A9, level 2, 2 children) she would likely earn about €2450 after deducting private health insurance (excluding inflation-driven "collective wage increases").
Part-time (50%) that would be €1400.
That means the bad case would probably be his income without side job (and without any increases in the next 5 years) and her halved income (50% part-time) in her previous job, €3800 + €1200 = €5000. Also, for the bad case we assume that they don’t get married or that the tax advantage from joint filing is abolished.
Do you think that in 5 years this bad case with an income of €5000 per month could endanger the plan?
Plus: the portfolio of €110,000 would still be available, which could be drawn on in the worst case.