It would be too risky for me with a temporary apprenticeship. Despite the status of civil servant on revocation, banks will not count the salary and it is also not seizable without marriage. Then there is the question why someone does an additional training only to earn less net in 3 years?
Thank you very much for the honest and critical comment. Is it really the case that the trainee salary for a civil servant on revocation is not counted by banks towards a loan?
We actually see the possibility of switching to the higher service along with civil servant status as a great long-term opportunity. Here we mainly see advantages after a few years in balancing family and career, retirement provision/pension, etc. Likewise, the 2000 euros net (after deduction of private health insurance) is merely the starting salary in the entry-level position (A9). This should ideally increase to about 2500€ net after deduction of private health insurance after about 3-4 years following completion of studies (hopefully then also with marriage and maybe 2 children).
But indeed, we are also not quite sure whether one should instead pursue a part-time business administration degree, which can be shortened to 1.5 years through prior further training. In that case, after a subsequent job change, one would presumably have a higher net salary faster and at the same time still have a net salary of about 1800€ per month.
The question here is whether one prefers to accept a reduced salary (~1250€ net) for 3 years in order to then become a civil servant in the higher service or rather pursue a part-time bachelor’s degree without major salary losses.
Based on the current numbers, I don’t see a problem. It gets tight if 3 years of study are ahead, you are not married, and then she wants to start a new job and after half a year/year kids come right away. Then you can really only count on about 4,800 euros or so, and the loan with 2k plus 400 ancillary costs is already 50% of your household income, and that for a few years because you don’t go back to full-time immediately. Challenging but doable.
If I were you, I would definitely
1) marry beforehand or sign a corresponding contract
2) either study or buy a house, in my opinion
3) wait out the studies, keep saving diligently and postpone the decision until after the studies when it’s clear where, how and what she will work
What does such a contract look like? Is there anyone here with experience on that?
With the dual degree program, it is actually quite certain that after 3 years she will work in a position at the local district authority on site, and the salary development is foreseeable.
Unfortunately, the property has a building deadline of 4 years from purchase, which means that if one were to buy this property in the near future, the decision to build could not be delayed for long.
According to your theoretical calculation, I would recommend the OP not to build a house and continue investing in stocks. Then he can retire at 40 and live off his returns, which exceed his full-time job. It really is that simple. I don’t understand why everyone does it differently.
My practical experience, however, is different. Most have not built up significant financial assets through their own work and savings by age 30 (excluding money gifts from parents, etc.). That’s how I know it from my younger colleagues and acquaintances. And I’m not even talking about long-term students. But maybe I don’t mingle in the “right” circles.
I also belong to the frugal group, finished my studies at 22 but at 26 was far from a financial asset of 170,000 euros.
By the way, I was able to surpass your stock calculation theoretically through early acquisition of property and strongly rising prices. The value of the property more than doubled for me between 2015 and 2022. However, this was a lucky coincidence and was not planned. The real estate value only exists virtually and is not realized because no sale is planned.
The 170,000€ actually came about through very disciplined saving and low living costs (and the occasional gift from parents). Overall, however, I don’t need great luxury to be happy. But that is not meant to be the primary topic here.