Wow, I didn’t expect so much feedback :) Interesting that it is actually quite different in some parts. In financing threads, people with little equity capital tend to get criticized (with quite justified concerns), but here it is rather mixed (even though the tendency here also seems to be towards more equity/saving frugally, that’s my impression).
For the sake of completeness, here’s our current status: We are 29/30 and relatively new to our jobs (2 years/0.5 years). We have no debts at all, but currently also little other capital (around ~20k), and we are currently putting aside about 1k/month for the house with more or less entry-level salary (~4.5k net) (there are also a few other savings pots which, if building/buying a house really became urgent, we might possibly reevaluate... at the moment they tend to get fuller rather than emptier, but it’s still quite new that we are even able to save).
Especially regarding the house, it feels a bit like fighting windmills, but currently we don’t want to build/buy yet. As mentioned at the beginning, the plan is more like “maybe in 5 years.” At the moment, it’s all just speculation and veeeery rough orientation. (Do we really want this? Is it realistic? And “wow, this is all so expensive”) Although I have also wondered, “what do we actually do if next year we find THAT plot (and there might be an obligation to build on it within a short time)” (The preliminary plan is different, but things always turn out differently than you think).
I definitely find the experiences here very interesting to read!