I am now just copying the response from my project manager here:
Hello Mr. XXX,
There are certainly many different opinions regarding the required fire protection switches.
You are right in saying that there is no obligation under the state building code,
the utility provider requires a system according to recognized rules of technology, which means that the electrical system must be installed according to the valid VDE guidelines at completion and commissioning.
(This requires the installation of fire protection switches from 18.12.2017 onwards)
The refusal of commissioning by the utility provider on site, and thus a complete rebuild of the meter box, would be an even larger and more costly effort in the course of completion.
If you want to waive the fire protection switch from Weberhaus, the electrical work would have to be carried out by yourself. (I think this option with other manufacturers is the so-called "choice" of fire protection switches, or the house will be completed by 18.12.17.)
This also means enormous additional effort and costs for Weberhaus; the flat rate of €1845 relates to an offer from Weberhaus to its builders to keep the frustration within limits,
the actual costs are significantly higher than that.
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I replied to him that then I do not understand why I am offered a fuse box at the price when buying a Weberhaus that is NOT state of the art, and that I therefore have to pay extra to have the switches replaced.
In their place, I would have simply added that to the house price and told the buyer directly from the outset: we have to build it like this from now on.
Then the builder would know from the start what to expect and would know exactly: Ok, he buys the house and it is state of the art, or he lets it go.
I buy a house and 6 months after my signature I am told that what I bought is not even state of the art and that I now have to spend almost €2,000 more.
I find that outrageous. Weberhaus is a market leader, they are alienating their customers like this...
I told him exactly that, and I am still waiting for a response...