Indigenous model - is this still legal?

Hmm.. I am also "local" (currently living next to my home village and the house is being built on the other side next to my home village, so from here two villages further), but somehow I don't know any of the mentioned problems. Either we have more compatible newcomers here or none at all... although I know at least one family from Berlin in our future place of residence and they are perfectly integrated. It certainly always depends on whether you have locals as colleagues, for example. If a metropolis is really nearby, that is probably more difficult than if there are only small towns with correspondingly fewer different employers.

I also don't know any local model here. And at least in the newest new development area in my home village there are families from other municipalities who also don't work here in the community or anything, so at least apparently it wasn't restricted to the community.
Here the shortage of building plots is probably not large enough and the locals get building gaps from friends/relatives.

On the coast, it is a real problem. Most severely Sylt, but diminishing in all seaside resorts that were once villages, and now Porsche and Cafe Wichtig on the promenade, Pro Secco 8,- euros per glass.

hm so if you move to a village, you also have to want to integrate yourself. You have to get moving yourself, and not wait to be invited.

Of course, someone who moves in should also approach their new neighbors, introduce themselves, and be interested. In the small town where I was born, my parents had moved in. I had many friends and a good childhood and was considered an outsider. Participating in the sports club and in local politics was no problem. On the occasion of a shooting festival, when the women were twisting little roses again, an older woman asked my mother how long she had been in the village (now city). My mother answered "30 years." The woman smiled and said: "That counts, girl, that counts." Those who could not tolerate being "outsiders" found enough other newcomers due to the enormous growth from 6,000 inhabitants in 1970 to over 40,000 in 2010. Everything works quite well. Property prices are unaffordable with 2 average salaries. People who have moved in, as described by , outdo each other with vehicles, vacation trips, and their children's achievements. The truly wealthy are either upper management from Düsseldorf or locals whose land was gradually turned into building land. I just wanted to say that approaching each other, as describes, is productive and that this requires goodwill from everyone.

My husband is also a newcomer

Development must be healthy and slow. Many things must grow along, not just the settlement.

The city that wants and gets more and more companies etc. must provide housing. Affordable for everyone.

Here there is a village that has high-rise buildings from the military era. They are trying to expropriate and demolish them. I fully understand that. There lives a mixed group of disadvantaged people who had the choice of café or bridge. This created an imbalance or there is a permanent study on the topic "effects of alcoholism"

I don’t know of a local resident model here either.

It is also not necessary in North and Central Hesse, since luckily we don’t have 200 applications for 10 building plots, as is sometimes the case in the areas of influx in Bavaria and Baden-Württemberg. After all, there has to be some advantage to the fact that there isn’t an abundance of huge employers here. It probably looks different in the Rhine-Main area.