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The development of the above-mentioned skills can only take place through a triad -> school, home environment, and the child's existing "potential." The less pronounced one of the three is, the more the other two have to compensate (in my opinion).

Correct. Only: The school has changed little, despite all reform ideas. Nevertheless, there is a significant downswing in these skills. Analysis?

Addition to the above:
@pagoni2020 The post describes a classic, which, however, often appears on the other side, the education households.
I have not quite understood yet why this appears with an increasing trend (i.e., the completely uncritical attitude towards one’s own offspring), but I believe that at its core, it has always existed.

That’s true, this is found predominantly in "education households." The worst I found it years ago at the expensive private school, and mostly I felt sorry for the kids who were supposed to compensate for their parents’ perceived deficits. I also experience it in the family, where parents talk themselves up about their protégés’ future while they sit in the next room. The kids’ lives are already planned out, aligned with what the parents themselves messed up in their own lives. Sad...
The blindness towards one’s own children has, in my opinion, increased extremely, which is often interpreted as parental love. But the child needs constructive and friendly criticism and so do we. If they don’t learn this, they will find it hard to cope when they suddenly have to deal with it in life and will quickly become frustrated. From my childhood/youth, I do not know it like this, nor from friends; it was rather sometimes unfair. Nevertheless, our parents were absolutely loyal to us... but not blind.

a) Children become the only real meaning-givers of their own lives and thus sacrosanct.

....of their own, maybe somewhat emptier life. Children should not have to bear this.

Bringing in money and consuming it does not create long-term life satisfaction.

Freely after Eckhart Tolle......

It is easier and even feels appropriate not to take teachers seriously and to distrust them regarding one’s own (sacrosanct) offspring.

Which anyone could expose as nonsense themselves, because how often did we lie to our parents? How can I believe that my child always tells me the absolute truth... that would be completely inhuman, so why do I believe that or wish it so strongly as a parent?

The offspring absolutely have to become academics.

...who then all meet again at the psychosomatic clinic at age 35... by the way, as far as I know, Germany has the highest density of such clinics worldwide... but even then, it is always the others who are affected. It is about finding meaning in what you do. Unfortunately, this has become uncool meanwhile, and I only read about 60, 70, 80k incomes, never about how a person feels well with something, no matter what it costs.
My previous sentence was not meant to be biting, really not, but precisely the “dancing, clapping, singing” in a figurative sense is extremely important for young and old people and nowadays comes up far too little. Unfortunately, it has too little importance today, which you also see in the current treatment of the art sector. What would parents say if their son said he wanted to become a dancer, or the daughter a singer...

Yes. The ability to earn a lot of money because you have studied something is equated with “having it good” “having a fulfilled life.” Why: Because we judge people by their ability to consume. This is my opinion, not an argument.

I personally believe that a good education, with the possibility of future self-employment including employees and building a small business, provides far more satisfaction. I say this as an academic coming from a working-class family.

A very likeable attitude to me.

Then off to the Montessori schools with the children, that's built into the structure there ;-)

A very likeable attitude of mine. Then off to the Montessori schools with the kids, that's built into the structure ;-)

That's right!

Personally, I am of the opinion that a good education with the possibility of future self-employment including employees and building up a small business provides far more satisfaction. I say this as an academic coming from a working-class family.

Definitely. Although it doesn't necessarily have to be a new success model, just on the other side, meaning immediately aiming for a "business of your own," "your own employees," and not just thinking of a "chief function" with your own offspring again. Why nowadays is it no longer enough to be completely "normal," that is, a contented Indian? My kids had zero idea after school how it should continue; it felt like there was an oversupply in which they were lost. The best in the school gave an actually sad speech because he didn't know what to do now with his many A's. That was the case for many, so they absorbed tips from determined parents; mine too. I just wanted to give an idea and help a little, very cautiously, yet he followed it and after a year realized that it was the absolutely wrong path. At least that was ruled out, but it became clear to me that from now on I have to keep quiet and endure my kids' uncertainty, because I myself really have zero idea how their lives should be or will be someday. After some back and forth, now everyone does what they have chosen for themselves; I never gave any more tips, it doesn't even work for me. I want happy kids; how they achieve that is totally indifferent to me. Ideally even without necessarily high pay, because then it is most certain that the choice was actually made according to meaning and not according to money.

...and that’s exactly why the little one has dancing, singing, and clapping as daily homework. This is not meant derogatorily, but unfortunately, this is exactly the teacher’s justification in the 2nd grade. We can give the little one extra tasks if the material seems too easy for us. Wonderful....

What do the “dancing, singing, and clapping” homeschooling and homework look like specifically? Breaking words into spoken syllables by clapping is, by the way, a basic precursor skill that you as a dad cannot appreciate highly enough in the first years, but non-educators quickly dismiss it as an "idiot task." Those are often the children who then have completely different problems in third and fourth grade. Please give a few concrete examples of the wasted time of your little one.