pagoni2020
2021-10-03 10:37:13
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This floor plan doesn’t win any prizes, though. :rolleyes: Even if it’s just for two people.
Does this "living/dining/kitchen tube" also get furniture? 12.21 x 4.34 (the last 4 m only with 3.43). Laundry practically through living space...
There has to be this much clarity for me to dedicate an entire post to you, !
I have been here in the forum for a long time and very gladly, and for some time now I have repeatedly read biting and often arrogant comments from you about other users, while you conveniently dodge questions about your own floor plan or pictures of your outstanding solutions, only to immediately bite the next user’s calf again because apparently you are not quite up to par higher up.
Winning a "prize" was not our goal, and given our existing conditions it was also clear to us that we neither had the desired time nor the options to achieve a perhaps better result. This house build is, at least for us, a result of various private and also factual “constraints,” and by no means is it the result of stubbornness or arrogance toward criticism presented here. "Those who can read are usually at an advantage," , and so it can be established that I have indeed taken EVERY criticism of our project seriously and have thanked for it, even if some things did not please us.
I believe it was you whom I once wrote to in another house building project and user that one should at least, for the sake of normally instilled decency, not soil the finished and unchangeable result with one’s own mediocrity. We at least know that we should have done some things differently, we are annoyed about some things in addition to the usual frustrations—but, and here you and I luckily differ—we live a consciously individual life and at the same time manage to derive our joy of life from sometimes less positive things. Because we carry this inside us, we do not blow out the light of others who have created something and who, despite existing flaws, can genuinely enjoy it.
For you, : There is "Two" and there is "Two" (people), and even if it sounds like a copy, they do and feel differently, even though it is clearly hard for you, as shown again and again, to imagine that.
We have a living environment we find beautiful but which is certainly unimaginable for you, live a life that seems strange to some others, but exactly the way we like it. This "strange" may then also be reflected in the house, and over the existing edges and corners we will rather sometimes grin than cling to them and get annoyed for life or spoil other users’ joy. I am sure you would also explain to the proud child that the Lego tower should have been better.....after that, no one will build with joy anymore......fortunately, I’m beyond this.
Apparently, it is difficult for you or you always need black-and-white to imagine things. A tip from me to you: better don’t try to imagine our life; you are wrong there again, and in the end, there would only be your usual disparagement of your choice.
You express your perceptible own suffering repeatedly in biting words toward individual users here; this time it just so happened to be us, and I find that such dullness initially hits me after I have shared my life here... but fortunately, it also passes again quickly.
Decency, as you clearly show, is not something Lidl offers; otherwise, you would not always write so stupidly and biting. Guys like you kill any discussion in a forum as well as the absolutely necessary willingness of builders to publicly present their private projects here.
BEFORE execution, harsh criticism is allowed and necessary; AFTER execution, it is unchangeable for the builder and therefore no longer wishes to be soiled by mediocre know-it-alls like you. Basically, you should not have to explain this to an adult anymore, but I will gladly explain it to you here once again, knowing that you will again burden other builders with your dullness so they feel worse afterward than before reading your ramblings.
For you and only for you, even though I already know it will bounce off you again like water on a wet penguin...
I think criticism is great, and I even like to seek it out beforehand! Unlike you, many others have openly posted their very private projects here. I see that as greatness and courage and always enjoy it.
Not showing or hiding something (that’s you), but at the same time interfering everywhere in a know-it-all manner and repeatedly responding nastily, then dodging posting your own, oh so great results here as a contribution fits exactly the biting height of a calf-biter— not even up to the knee.
I have already argued heatedly here, but always ultimately seen that positively and then sought my own share in it. I do not want to argue with you; for that, I would have to take you seriously, which has been difficult for me so far and is now impossible seeing that your malice constantly must come out because it apparently is not allowed elsewhere.
Your criticism is certainly as often justified as any other, and we are mature and reflective enough to also recognize what might have been done better. Precisely because of that, however, I generally do not soil finished objects of others because I am always aware that my own project is just as flawed and unchangeable. The decency instilled in me fortunately prevents me from ridiculously elevating myself above others en masse; that is known to only happen if one feels too small and unnoticed in life (keyword calf...).
As I once wrote in the thread of another builder, you apparently lack any sense for the right moment or rhythm; what predominates is interpersonal coarseness with which some push their way through their own gray life. I never seek pats on the back, and receiving such from you and your often-read, one-track life philosophy would rather unsettle me than please me.
I already had a bad feeling when posting the floor plan and pictures; I actually no longer thought that in many forums, some miserable people unhappy with their own lives are lurking who just wait to shoot you in the knee at 3:00 a.m. out of their own dull boredom or half-drunk, so you feel a bit worse first thing in the morning.
It results in one increasingly holding back with such private details here; therefore, you may finally give yourself a pat on the deep shoulders that you have once again caused a participant to keep a significantly lower profile in the future. In that respect, it was at least enough beyond the calf... that’s nice too.
Yes – that angered me, the AFTER and only the AFTER. Much here does not please me, and I certainly wouldn’t want to even see your lifestyle and way of life in the shade. Nevertheless, you will never read that I soil a project AFTER, so that the respective builder might be even more annoyed about the weaknesses already known to him.
My sincere thanks to all even harsh critics BEFORE (note to : -BEFORE-) completion; everyone now has a share in it (but also in what went wrong :D).
So all my thread critics from now on must live with the crap they helped cause here, and therefore each of them is always warmly invited to the probably upcoming lovely evenings in our "House for Two" and to bump heels on the way to the fridge or the too small living room or scratch knees while carrying out laundry. Never mind, with Mozart in the background, a great picture on the wall, or the chic chandelier, it then doesn’t hurt so much anymore.
It’s a pity won’t be there, but he is currently on a lecture tour or again hasn’t gotten out of his gray... we will still toast to him!
, in the next life you will be my role model; I don’t believe in a second life, though. THAT would really be a drama, but I can live with the corners in the house.
As far as I am concerned, the mod can now admonish me several times here or kick me out. I am done and will go to my botched construction, stroke my stairs, rejoice like crazy about what worked out, consciously overlook a few missing centimeters on the steaming cappuccino machine, and enjoy my life with my people that mostly consists of things other than house stress. Since yesterday, more problems have been solved, the wooden facade and carport are coming soon, and even the missing windows are supposed to be installed on moving-in day; the foil will do for a few days otherwise.
, somewhere deep inside you might be a nice guy after all, but it has always been that I prefer to associate with people who have fallen, stumbled, are flawed, or weakened. I generally avoid know-it-alls; here I apparently did not pay close enough attention, but that can be corrected.
In your thought cosmos, my reaction may now seem exaggerated to you, but I mean every word exactly as I write it about your repeatedly shown lack of empathy and the apparent mediocrity of your often biting comments. :D
Now it’s out of me, how liberating, best to just kick me out here anyway but that had to be said once.
Guys like you only make life gray at most; no one needs that, and too bad for you that your own life will not become a bit brighter because of it!
By the way, I go by boat over the Elbe to the construction site... then I hardly notice the missing centimeters needed for a "life for two" as recognized by .
@mod – sorry, do with this what you think or what has to be done... I’m feeling fine again now.