Brief update to the community:
The appointment with the architect took place. He also finds the situation unbelievable (for that money, 10 years ago we would have built villas, not a single-family house). He said we are in a comparably comfortable situation... the real problem lies with those who are currently building and have a half-finished house. He said the calculation from autumn (440k turnkey) can no longer be maintained, but horror scenarios of +20% cost increases wouldn't help anyone either, because it simply does not reflect reality, according to him.
Well, he will definitely prepare a slimmed-down design for us (everything a bit smaller, without a covered terrace, without corner windows, ...) and suggests we reassess the situation together at the end of the year.
I addressed some points from the forum:
He calculated earthworks at €13,000. I asked if that wasn’t too cheap. He said if you have someone who works in civil engineering and rent an excavator, you can even save more than half. Almost nothing needs to be disposed of, since most of the excavation must be filled in again at the other end (diagonal slope across the property).
With our conditions, you can easily save €40-50k through own contributions.
Certain things, like the double garage being a cost driver, he frankly dismissed as nonsense.
We will wait and see how everything develops by the end of the year. Work is going well at least, maybe there will be some income increase by then. I think, besides the paid land, the freely available equity will amount to around €40k by then. Better than nothing... we'll see.
Appointment with the general contractor is coming up, let’s see what he calculates. Should I be careful there? Surely they initially calculate nicely for contract acquisition, right?