Single-family house with gable roof, without basement - Feedback desired

He definitely wants to have the double garage and the landing staircase.

I would also like my farmer to convert one of his cows from pure milk to cocoa. He advised me against making the fulfillment of this wish a condition of my happiness.

It is very difficult to realize our ideas on this property and with given restrictions.

Exactly: it is actually only difficult. It only becomes unsolvable when additional conditions are piled on.

We would like to have the kitchen in the west, as the outdoor kitchen will be located in the western garden, so I don't have to go through the entire living area to get there.

But then please with access to the terrace!

Your house has no connection to the west. According to your husband's designs, you have to go from the kitchen through half the house into the living room to get outside. Or through the garage. Half of your garden is separated from the house just because gabions spoil the view there. There is only a kitchen window...

Between the kitchen and the dining room there is a door to the west terrace

Take the kitchen from the architect. Instead of a G-shape, make a peninsula and have the 1.2 m distance that counts as ergonomic between the lines. Instead of a window on the west wall, install a balcony door. It doesn't get more direct and shorter than that. You go directly from the outdoor kitchen into your kitchen.

Between the kitchen and the dining room there is a door to the west terrace

Since at some point I stopped reading every word of your husband here... but surely I am no longer interested in "new" drafts that look the same at a glance, I do not know this draft. However, I was under the impression that I had seen an architect's draft where the living room does not serve as a passage room and there is also a possibility to exit from the kitchen...

What always confuses me is this 160m² or now also 175m² thing. What kind of limit is that supposed to be? Who sets it? The bank? The general contractor? Grandma?

Maybe the money is enough if you take a prefab garage for 10 grand and then build 3 floors?