pagoni2020
2020-07-12 16:21:43
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Oh dear ....I believe that you - fortunately - already know your decision and that’s a good thing. The horror scenarios of your acquaintances with constantly screaming children and shouting teenagers may have applied to their personal perception, but maybe you would have experienced it completely differently. I have lived in various places in my life and UNFAILINGLY the unpleasant things came from where you would never have suspected. The neighbor’s dog, who was told to be quiet screaming 500 times a day, which he of course understood as an invitation to keep barking, the often drunk neighbor who yells with other neighbors, calls the police but always runs the chainsaw at noon himself etc......want more horror examples? - For me it’s completely incomprehensible how someone can seriously give individually perceived experiences as advice for or against buying an apartment. My elementary school right next door up to grade 3 was a gain for us. At noon I sat on the terrace and the kids sang songs or waved to me, next door at the cemetery there were sometimes funerals and then I gladly let people park in my parking space for that hour; that’s also a way to perceive something. There’s no guarantee of safety but you don’t have a garbage dump in your front yard but a kindergarten next door or a sports field.....oh dear. Just the way you approach this matter, that’s how it will be. If a kindergarten would be a no-go, what about the farm 1 km away and its smells or a nuclear power plant 20 km away that I can’t even see. A school sports field is definitely better than another apartment block with lots of people, cars etc. I would even gladly walk past it or watch sometimes. Maybe your wife really finds a job there and then that would be the absolute luxury case, walking to work, saving a car/commuting cost/time and the break on your own terrace. Of course, if I hate the work and other things here (as I read here occasionally), then I couldn’t see any advantage in that either. Your parents have their experiences and worries but those are not yours; and the rest can be found in the crystal ball. ...I know a nice quiet little house next to the old chemical plant. Nobody lives there anymore except a few with chronic hair loss. There’s no bird singing there either-