I think dividing it into a two-family house shows that the space requirements of the living units are completely different. The children's rooms downstairs are too small to be used by two, there is no wardrobe, there is no storage room. If you draw the furniture to scale, it will be partly tight.
Well usable living units must be designed that can be rented out if necessary. Otherwise, it will really become a ghost house. If push comes to shove, in 15 years only 2 people will be living in a house that was once planned for 8.
If the building application is submitted today, when would the move-in be? Sometime at the end of next year. What about the 17-year-old today? Will he stay here or leave for training and only come sporadically? What about the brother? Is it foreseeable that he will look for an apartment or does he want to stay in [Hotel Mama]? I don’t want to throw anyone out, but these two people are the shaky candidates that we are worrying about now and who then hardly move in. Maybe one room shared by both is enough for them.