Let me guess: you make your money from it, so not necessarily as a network admin but indirectly?
Put very bluntly: not every citizen needs high speed when taking a shit, for the wireless speakers, or the speed for 4K on the phone display while lounging on the sofa when the TV 4 meters away gets the same easily with a fixed connection.
And half a dozen access points, Cloudkeys and whatnot along with their connections, planning, configuration and maintenance is really something for freaks; in any case, this is NOT the normal case you can assume. If that’s okay for you or important to someone, then go ahead, please. You are certainly entitled to that!
But I haven’t heard such requirements from the questioners – otherwise they probably wouldn’t have asked the way they did. They are not interested in mesh, GHz, Ubi*wo, and you probably couldn’t convince them that a server rack makes sense either.
Like most people, they just want an easy-to-use network that works everywhere in the house without much fiddling, so that when setting it up or if it stops working, they first need to call their brother-in-law or nephew again... and for exactly those, LAN sockets for the real devices that can actually use high speed are extremely useful. Plug in, works. Unplug, doesn’t work anymore. Everyone understands that.
The rest can then be done by WLAN optimized for 95% of cases. For the effort you put into a 99.x% solution (hundreds of hours and euros), they put you into the freak corner or just give you the finger.
So just move yourself from the ego perspective to the bird’s eye view ;o) and you will understand that what you describe may by far not apply to all builders.