Do you already have an architect or not?
Short answer: Yes and no.
Long answer:
Over a year ago, we contacted three architects, visited the plot, and held preliminary discussions. The one who seemed to fit us best was asked to implement our ideas. So we created a priority list and a room list and discussed what we liked (massive wooden beams, visible joints, natural building materials), what was absolutely not acceptable (Bauhaus style, stairs/platforms on the lower floor, etc.). The first six meetings were extremely frustrating – we received designs in Bauhaus style, with platforms, back and forth. Only when we discussed a design we had drawn ourselves did things slowly move in the right direction – but too slowly and with far too little input from the architect (in my opinion).
Therefore, we ended the collaboration and searched for an architect who does not "also" build wooden houses, but exclusively builds them. Planning started anew; again, we discussed the floor plan we had drawn, visited about 10 houses and noted what we liked and disliked – and afterwards designed a house that externally resembled a visited property we liked. The changes made were mainly adjustments on the level: The recess at 2.50 m depth is unusable, the initially planned open space does not fit at all... and then, at some point, with an expiring preliminary decision, the priority became: First building application, then further changes.
Now, when not even the bedroom fits (I don’t know which design referred to; I noticed it at the beginning of the discussion in the "old" one), we looked for a new architect again. Again, one from a company that builds wooden houses, as we now know that not everyone can do that. Based on our experience with the old floor plan, we expressly chose an architect who plans large single-family homes. So he is not exactly our architect.
He has now received an idea from us as a basis, along with our Pinterest image collection and the things we want. Let’s see what he says. My expectation now is mainly that he points out mistakes, problems, or better solutions to us. Getting an especially creative design that blows me away... I have given up on that. What I like about the current concept is that it has one floor less, that it seems variable enough to accommodate different phases of life, and that it goes back in the direction we wanted. Because we created a first design ourselves, I know that my 220x240 cm waterbed fits in my 4x4 m bedroom.