Why shouldn't I build a KfW 55 house??? Again... I get a repayment grant of 18k with an additional cost of about 5k. WHY should I build a KfW 70 house????
It's not just that you are critical of the ventilation system, you are also not exactly convinced by heat pumps. And I wonder how you want to achieve the Efficiency House 55 standard. My personal recommendation for you would be a classic gas condensing boiler with solar thermal support, window rebate ventilation, and underfloor heating (which, however, is already designed to be heat pump compatible, i.e. low flow temperature). Whether you can build an Efficiency House 55 with this, I don't know. I would ask your general contractor about that. I would also be interested to know what is included in your "KFW 55" package for 4 - 7k or how the system technology looks there.
I would then waive the repayment grant or the profit you want to make; although 13k is a lot of money, over the lifetime of the house or the loan period it becomes negligible, and personally, it would not be worth it to me to give up my own conviction for that.
For the sake of formality, it should be said that my recommendation for you in no way represents my convictions about new construction in the current times.