Even at the risk of actually feeding a troll, I will still try to be factual.
You don’t have to circumvent the energy saving ordinance. You simply use a well-insulating stone for the extension. The rest of the facade will be repainted.
The roof (new and old) is insulated with cellulose. This can also be done as a DIY project and is worthwhile after a few years.
What I also recommend (depending on the construction year of the windows) is either a glass replacement on the east side (often good value for money) or new windows. For very new windows, I recommend those with rebate ventilators to avoid mold.
As for the heating, I would be relaxed at first. As long as it is weather-controlled (which you can recognize by the outdoor sensor), to my knowledge, you don’t have to do anything. However, I don’t know how long it will last like this.
It will also handle the extension, because
1. plenty of reserves were always included in the past, and
2. you have already newly insulated the roof and windows.
I do not know Mr. Fischer personally. However, your worries and fears are partly widespread.
On the other hand, I have only had good experiences with insulation. The house becomes more comfortable and cozy. There are no more cold walls that “radiate.” Likewise, you can keep heating at a low level 24/7 without wasting energy.
In summer, it stays cool, even in the attic.
Is it cost-effective? For many measures, not if you have them carried out by companies.
But with the house, it’s not only about the wallet, but also whether you really feel comfortable.
I suspect (it really is just a suspicion) that you bought the house and want or have to renovate and extend it due to frugality or a limited budget.
Engage intensively with DIY work.
Regards, Joe