yes, thank you very much. I had another conversation with a financial service provider. Currently, I would actually want to go for a "simpler" model, consisting of:
20y fixed interest rate
20y KFW
After 20 years then a corresponding follow-up financing. It's not exactly what I initially had in mind, because of the risk of what happens if interest rates rise extremely, but if you repay properly and possibly make special repayments, then the risk is also lower, because interest rates can indeed rise somewhat without being more expensive compared to a building savings contract.
At some point it would of course become more expensive, but at the beginning you are more flexible.
But there are now probably many reasons why what I said is once again complete nonsense, right?
Edit: Repayment will probably be around 2% for our total amount, 3% would be too high a burden, especially in the first 10 years when there might be a loss of income due to offspring. Better to increase it significantly later and if you can before, then just make special repayments, then more is repaid.