Desirable property affordable? Experiences?

  • Erstellt am 2023-01-23 10:28:06

kati1337

2023-02-08 10:04:33
  • #1
It is objectionable because the OP did not ask "third child or property?" The third child was presented to us as a decided decision, only the property was up for debate. Then coming along and saying "you want a house, better forget about the child" is the move I find inappropriate.
 

Bertram100

2023-02-08 11:04:37
  • #2
No, he wrote. If....Then. And he inserted his personal advice there.

And quite realistically considered, what you put into the driver’s writing is indeed true. Because the OP wants the house, instead of looking for a compromise within it. It is also legitimate to set the bar that high. Then it really becomes an If.... Then matter. The OP has that in his own hands.
 

mayglow

2023-02-08 16:20:07
  • #3
Good luck with your further search. Among acquaintances in older houses, many but smaller rooms are not that uncommon. However, the acquaintances also live far away from the nearest big city :) In urban areas and with newer builds, I have so far tended to see fewer but possibly larger rooms. When we ourselves were still browsing and considering whether to build our own home yes/no/maybe (we are now buying a new build terraced house), I also liked to leaf through brochures and often felt we were missing a room in the standard floor plan (probably even 2 for you) (even in the larger ones, the rooms were often just made bigger rather than more numerous). For "it also works in compact," I had noted the variants of the Flair floor plans from Town & Country (e.g. the 6-room floor plans below and/or above in the Flair 125; or the 152 standard floor plan). Of course, the rooms get correspondingly smaller in the 125 model, but at least I had written that down for myself as more compact floor plan options. Other manufacturers can certainly do that too, but I didn’t find much online about it. Just as inspiration, in case you might turn towards new builds somewhere.
 

leschaf

2023-02-08 16:28:08
  • #4
I would like to claim that a 3rd child does not necessarily mean more house. Personally, looking back, I would say that I wouldn’t have cared at all about having only 10sqm instead of 14sqm, but I wouldn’t want to miss my little sister :)

But of course, the rest is naturally correspondingly more expensive (car, food, vacation, etc.)
 

Reinhard84.2

2023-02-08 18:52:40
  • #5


There it is, your "inheritance." You can hardly be luckier. Two pairs of grandparents who really want to care are emotionally and financially invaluable.
 

xMisterDx

2023-02-08 19:04:49
  • #6


But then you also have to have the balls to tell the OP very clearly:
Your plan with this rate and 3 children? Forget it.

You know. My concern here is actually to give people serious advice and not to dream castles in the air with them.

I know exactly what I'm talking about. 2 children, around 5,000 EUR net fixed, but only 1,200 EUR rate. And then there is not even 2,000 EUR left per month.
This "we will save really, really hard for 10 years" is a sham. The eldest now wants to learn to ride... 2x per week an hour... about 250 EUR/month...

And then with 6,000 EUR net, 3 children and 3,300 EUR rate? Forget it.
That is possible if you give up almost everything. But why would I bring 3 children into the world whom I then can only buy bread and water for?
 

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