Hello,
in our first apartment we had a closed kitchen and overall a more conservative layout of the rooms. In the current one, we have an open kitchen with a flowing transition into the living and dining room. That was nice until the family grew and the requirements changed. We really miss our closed kitchen, so there will be a closed one again in the house.
Sure, an open kitchen looks more stylish and might be modern / "in," but for us it now has only disadvantages in every respect. Now with a child, the kitchen is only usable when the little one is awake. Even loading the dishwasher wakes the child, and I can’t even think about having a coffee in the morning before work. It also doesn’t matter whether my wife or I are in the kitchen, we want to have our peace.
Choose the kitchen and house variant that fits your daily routines and don’t give a damn about what others think of it or what they would have done differently.