Monthly living expenses with a child

No one said it, it was my assumption from the statement that everything is shared equally with you and everyone is equal. Then you can expect that if it has always been like this..

If he doesn't expect it, even better, but I can hardly imagine that if you don't know it any other way.

Equal treatment also includes consideration, and he shows that towards us. He takes care of us, just as we do for him. The whole thing only works in two directions. I am aware that this can change, but so far the last 16 years have been perfect.

In my private life no one approaches me the way you do, so the question arises and your accusation is not directed at me.

Where do I approach you? And where have I accused you of anything? I asked a question and drew a conclusion.

To your question about tone and accusations towards others, just a few quotes from you:

And someone sends their children to work just because they had to work themselves, why did you even bring children into the world? Normally none of this is okay.

You may continue if you can still look at yourself in the mirror, okay.

Something seems already hurt in your harmony.

Great upbringing.

It's probably like that with you, and now you transfer it to others.

Often it seems to me that a few here are jealous that there are families where things are harmonious and equal.

Change yourselves then it can be like that for you too.

Are you jealous that you hope so?

Then don't accuse others either. Little friend.

Are you threatening me?

These are not exactly expressions one should use in a forum, unless one has a somewhat choleric streak... Self-reflection is difficult in a forum, though, I have to admit that.

Simply brilliant, you have 24 parent-teacher meetings and suddenly you have something to laugh about.... um missed a lot of things of great value for your own work and upbringing.

If I had recommended the upbringing of Hagenlocher to some parents....
then all the students would be perfect. Unfortunately, the parking lot would be full in the morning because all the students have their own cars... parents have one too..

Jokes aside: our children are 24 months and 6 months old. My wife is still at home and the children don’t even cost more than the child benefit. Just regional products from the market and little meat/fish. My wife sews herself... Saving diligently, with the little one being 24 months old, all four will get the same new phone. And soon the little ones will want their own car. We already divide the salary by four. No one should be favored here!!!

Forgot to mention, the children receive more monthly payments than my wife and I. They share a room.... I am the only one who has a study....

We already divide the salary by 4. No one should be favored here!!!

Will the little ones also be included in the loan agreement and the land register? No one is supposed to be disadvantaged either.

Yep, they were a bit shocked when they had to pay [Grunderwerbsteuer]...