Dowry hunter - Aunt's partner tries to cheat the grandmother

but you do write texts. My day is not that long

: that she is annoying and that she is lonely are two different things. If she constantly complains and snaps at me from the balcony, I wouldn’t say: oh poor woman, because that would also annoy me at some point. The other thing is to take time and listen kindly when she talks your ear off or just to ask how she is doing. Therefore, it is not quite clear what exactly annoys your neighbor about the grandma, that she sits on the balcony and watches?

I have the impression with some posts that only the last ten pages were read beforehand. At the beginning, the "danger potential" was described:

A few years ago, he had gotten himself such a thing again. When my grandfather passed away, my grandmother of course inherited the house alone. After that, he persuaded her to go to the notary with him and have the will changed. We (my sister and I are now heirs to 25% each after my mother's death) were supposed to be shortchanged with 10K euros. We only have the clever notary to thank that this did not happen. She rejected the procedure as unlawful.

Moreover, it will not be possible to approach things on the intellectual level that lie on the emotional level:

Dear Kaho, the grandma story doesn't work anymore. It's about your ego and your problem with a stranger who wants your family fortune.

I appreciate the worries about grandma as genuine on the one hand; on the other hand, they still seem to me only as a "hook" to address the problem on the intellectual level.

What it originally concerns – I haven’t looked up the relevant excerpt(s) just now – is: the mother is dead, and apparently she played second fiddle alongside her sister during her lifetime. And now Katja apparently sees looming that her mother must suffer in her grave, that her sister is kicking her again, and sits alone on mom’s (i.e., grandma’s) lap. Nasty as it is, sitting on the other knee is her shady lover. That is simply a painful image in Katja’s head, and no reproaches about how to behave properly with spatial distances can help against that.

Therefore, this Tvread is probably just a vent for something else. Nevertheless, as a granddaughter, you can't change the world, turn back time, or see more influence on grandma than she actually has. And yes , you quickly forget the other thing Katja wrote. Still, I have to say that I don't believe all of it. There's too much hearsay involved. You can't settle with an heir with 10,000, so something might not be right there. Besides, I think Katja is now very subjective when it comes to her almost-uncle... we also know that OP often thinks crazy stuff himself and repeatedly.

You can't settle a compulsory heir with 10,000, so something might be wrong there.

That's why the notary also refused.

Nevertheless, as a granddaughter, you can't change the world, turn back time, or have more influence on grandma than she actually has.

That is probably the real conflict: grandma is actually nice - but apparently did not equally love her daughters; and now one of them is dead and reconciliation (uh, -daughtership) is no longer possible. And now the nasty pest is also butting into the position that should morally have belonged to the second daughter. A nightmare, but (by us) not solvable.

Dear people. This really makes no sense anymore. You are making up scenarios here. Please don't! No, my mommy was neither neglected, suppressed, terrorized, nor anything else by grandma or sister.

Everyone here only reads what confirms their self-developed theory and the wildest speculations arise. It's almost funny. Another 20 pages and we can sell a screenplay.

I also have no desire to refute all the theses, no one believes me anyway. So I have all the information I need on the subject. Thanks again to everyone! But if you enjoy it so much, you can add a little more. Maybe someone will end up filming the soap opera after all.

But if you enjoy it that much, you can add a little more. Maybe someone will end up filming the soap opera.

It already exists, you just have to zap between the existing soap operas. In good times as in bad, you should always wear red roses with Clarissa von Lahnstein's dress in Lindenstraße.