Dowry hunter - Aunt's partner tries to cheat the grandmother

Well, at least you’re thinking about the distribution of the inheritance of a woman who is still alive. So the question remains who the insensitive fool is here

Yes, because you have to, otherwise the guy will rip off grandma. That’s a difference. But it’s also important to know how to handle it later on. In case of emergency, we’ll be standing there like fools because we were so tactful not to inform ourselves. I think that’s nonsense. I just buried my mother. It was and is hell. But I also learned that you have to be able to talk about everything. Even about death.

Have you ever shared your concerns with Grandma? Otherwise, if she is incapacitated, your aunt is usually appointed. There is nothing you can do except sue

That is exactly the question. Can she manage it or is it too difficult?

You know how it is. That ass of a friend of my aunt wasn't even at her funeral. And now he wants to cheat her out of her inheritance because she's already dead. It's like he's slapping her even in death and laughing about it. I couldn't care less what Grandma does with her house. As far as I'm concerned, she can sell it and go on a world trip. But that bastard won't cheat my mother if it ever comes to that!

My grandma and grandpa had a joint will in which their children are each considered with 50%. Since it is a joint will, it could not be changed even after my grandpa’s death. My grandpa knew why he did that...

Sometimes it also states what happens if the children are no longer alive. Maybe you are not even heirs, but only have a compulsory portion claim. I think such a case was posted here in the forum before. So read it carefully again.

I am just afraid that they will somehow drive grandma out of her house. She wouldn’t survive that. Another possibility would be that they persuade grandma to sell them the house and grandma can live in it until her death. If grandma wants that, it wouldn’t be so bad. But I could imagine they would then mercilessly throw her out.

If she has a lifelong right of residence, then she cannot be thrown out. Besides, she is not just anyone, after all she is their mother.

If we are supposed to decide about her affairs, that could be seen as unfair too, right?

I think her daughter, who visits her every week, can decide about her affairs better than you as a grandchild who lives 500 km away and only comes by every few months. So it would not be equally unfair, but actually more unfair.

Yes, because you have to, otherwise the guy will cheat grandma. That makes a difference. How you handle it later is also important to know. In an emergency, we’ll be standing there like fools because we were so tactful and didn’t inform ourselves. I think that’s nonsense.

I just buried my mother. It was and is hell. But I also learned that you have to be able to talk about everything. Even about death.

Yes, sorry, as I said, I didn’t want to be tactless. But it’s always about the money. There’s always a huge drama in the East. Everyone thinks they’ve been shortchanged. Is the nasty partner a wessi? I know something like that from my wife. They’re constantly fighting about money. He has this, he has that. Have you tried talking to aunt?

Sometimes it also says what happens if the children are no longer alive. Maybe you are not heirs at all, but only have a compulsory portion claim. I believe such a case was once posted here in the forum. So read it again carefully.

I don't think so, but I'm not going to check now either.

If she has a lifelong right of residence, then she cannot be kicked out. Besides, she is not just anyone; after all, she is her mother.

Yes, promising and keeping are two completely different things with that guy. And he wouldn't put it in writing right now.

I believe her daughter, who visits her every week, can better decide about her affairs than you as a grandson who lives 500 km away and only comes around every few months. So it would not be equally unfair, but actually more unfair.

You're right about that. If only that scoundrel weren't there. Then my aunt could have the house for all I care.