You need an architect with experience in the field of old building renovation, a structural engineer with experience in old buildings - both are rare specimens and almost always expensive. Gutting costs money, you always have to plan at least a 20% buffer for nasty surprises that come with old buildings. That's how it is. You need companies that can work with old buildings, where right angles are rather rare. You often need custom-made parts, which cost extra. You always have to expect delays.
For the size, just the mandatory energy refurbishment of the building envelope will cost 50,000 without your own work.
A mansard roof of that size newly built will also be in that range, probably more. Presumably, the floors on the ground floor are at most a rammed screed; if the house still has no heating, no one will have installed new floors with drainage... so excavation inside the building.
And as sensitive to noise as you are, you won't be happy with impact noise in such houses. 200 sqm of new floors, you'll quickly be in the five-figure range.
With your standards for comfort, you should rather calculate in the direction of > 500,000.