I agree with on this... that seems like an awful lot to me as well. Is every little red dot supposed to be a recessed ceiling spotlight?
And whether you need emotional/atmospheric lighting or rather bright/functional lighting in the hallway, especially with kids... I think the latter.
For the hallway on the ground floor/upper floor, I would mainly design it with motion detectors so that the light definitely turns off after a certain time. I don’t want to miss that in my own small hallway anymore.
Office... I wanted proper lighting over the desk... daylight lamp, which also casts light upwards. Picture from the setup phase in my apartment
In addition, I have a simple central ceiling light that I could have skipped, as well as a floor lamp by the sofa. For example, I can hardly think of any situation where the spotlights in the room corners planned for you would be needed.
Kitchen, I find the spotlights in the corridor between the wall unit and the peninsula unnecessary; instead, I would plan a spotlight on the lower right side below the cooktop and one or two wall outlets or possibly one or two spotlights in that corridor area on the left wall.
Living room, I would rather plan at least one wall outlet each between the windows at the top and on the left side instead of so many ceiling spotlights.
Upper floor master bathroom... something at the bathtub is missing for me.
Upper floor master bedroom... do you really need ceiling spotlights there? It was especially important to me that bedside lamps and main lights can be switched both from the entrance and from the bed.
Upper floor children's room... here too, I would find it important to have bedside light (=socket) switchable from both the entrance and the bed, possibly also the main light switchable that way.
Upper floor hallway, again with a motion detector would be practical, maybe also set so that at night it doesn’t turn on full brightness if you just need to go to the toilet. Because you don’t need optimal illumination of the hallway in that case.