For me, it will now definitely be the 75 model heat pump. The heating technician had the heating load calculation put together and offered again from Vaillant. "Unfortunately," he also said that Vaillant had approved the 55 model heat pump for my construction. However, it unfortunately does not meet the BAFA annual performance factor. He will also not certify any values for BAFA, for which the underfloor heating is not designed – keyword "repayment" under point 55 of the information sheet.
The surcharge for the Vaillant package compared to the standard Daikin Altherma 3 R heat pump and ZEWO Vent ventilation with rotary heat exchanger is supposed to be just over €7k and will not be significantly lower with the smaller heat pump. Unfortunately, the BAFA subsidy then overcompensates the heat pump optimum.
With this, I can hopefully live somewhat efficiently for >15 years. The plan is then to carry out the ideal replacement procurement after optimal thermal balancing.
Thanks to everyone who helped me! I will definitely provide feedback on how it looks in practice. :)