Where is the street/site plan? Does the door have to face south? I don’t consider the budget impossible in NI, even without personal contribution.
What doesn’t work: lack of storage space on the ground floor, the kitchen counter. Avoidable: interior bathroom on the ground floor, the laundry situation.
An office or guest room in our case would already be downgraded to the utility room as soon as you move in. Accordingly, the technology could be housed directly there.
The floor plan is not open because all rooms pick up the noises from the living room, kitchen, teenagers. One might only speak of openness if the staircase were completely enclosed in glass.
I don’t like the design at all and I would start again with the entrance and staircase from the front. With 6 rooms and 150m² you have very little space to waste. The many wishes that were incorporated do not do the house any favors.
Suggestion: conventional staircase, check if the front door would be more sensible on the east, use a (proper) gable on the upper floor for guest or office and allocate the gained space to a utility room and the living room.