You do have to integrate a bit into the village, though, otherwise you won’t feel comfortable there in the long run and you won’t discover the advantages of village life (e.g., more mutual helpfulness). For example, I don’t have to buy a chainsaw here; I borrow one from the neighbor three houses down the road and return it clean with a six-pack attached...
Sure, but that doesn’t only apply to villages. Neighborly help and getting involved in village life is nice and all, but that has to grow first… I can hardly get involved in village life before I even live there. It’s a chicken and egg problem. And our search radius is relatively large; we can’t possibly become members of 10 volunteer fire departments at the same time just to have a chance at a property years from now, because only then would we no longer be the unwelcome outsiders.
Another discussant—I don’t remember exactly if in the same thread—once put it differently: when asking about properties, he’d better park his Düsseldorf company car out of sight. The issue is simply that the villagers don’t want an influx of colonial ruler-like city dwellers.
I can understand that, luckily that’s not really a problem for us. We are not like that, and we don’t look like that either.
Given the fact that people won’t be getting any smarter in the foreseeable future, prices will of course continue to rise: every buyer disliked by potential sellers drives the price, as expressed in money, higher. Country life is not a one-way street. You simply impose defensive prices on those who refuse village life.
Sounds harsh, backward, and maybe I’m wrong, but I think the villagers are shooting themselves in the foot with that, because in this way only people with deep pockets and SUVs can afford a property in the village. No, they don’t buy from the villagers then. They just have to wave bundles of euros in front of the heir who moved to Berlin 15 years ago to launch his start-up... For people like us who earn just above average (or average earners in general) nothing remains, and those would be the ones who are most likely to want and be able to contribute.
It’s not like there are no building plots available here. As I said, plenty of infill sites. The municipalities are not designating new development areas; the idea is to densify properly first before sealing more land...
They don’t want exactly those kinds of people in the village. First, they don’t contribute anything to village life (it’s always give and take) and might then get upset about everything. The church bells are too loud, the farmer working at night, on Sundays, or holidays is a nuisance, or … village does not equal living peacefully in the countryside!
We have absolutely nothing against engagement in the village community. Meaningful areas where one could contribute according to their possibilities for us would be, for example, the volunteer fire department, THW, neighborhood help associations, etc. We just don’t want to waste our time on (subjectively speaking) ridiculous and questionable traditional customs. We already live rurally, and that should stay that way. We’re used to church tower bells, tractor, and motorcycle noise on weekends and definitely don’t want to exchange that for big city noise.