Regarding the statement about experience – maybe he will think differently in 20 years. Unfortunately, experience usually only comes with years – for some, never. If you don’t notice yourself what went wrong – you don’t get upset afterwards either.
Maybe there is a problem in such statements?
If you don’t notice yourself what went wrong...
then everything went right! Not lack of experience, but building purposefully tailored to one’s own needs. Period.
Accusing young builders here of naïveté only means that you take
your demands as a reference to extrapolate what others, if they just had more life experience, would do exactly the same way.
But that is wrong.
Even young builders are perfectly aware, especially here in the forum where such things are discussed, of possible upgrades to the standard and their costs.
And whoever creates a clear specification of what is must-have and what is nice-to-have and then compares trades with a meticulous plan and shops smartly, doesn’t have to pay the prices you throw around here even with a good house, equipment clearly above main contractor standard, and controlled residential ventilation.
Such prices can of course easily be paid if you have a different specification sheet, i.e. different demands. But then it has nothing to do with functionality anymore, but mainly with optics, haptics, small details.
Whoever has those demands is free to do so, some people build exactly for that. But discussions whether you need oak-aluminum windows each with a high-class blind now miss the Pareto principle of house building. You can easily spend 30% of the price on the last 5% of the way – and your posts read exactly like that.
I find it somewhat arrogant to describe the absence of such ambitions in young builders as lack of experience. And I can’t understand the whining about the costs of such extras either. Those things are not cheap and never have been. Those who can and want to should, but how can that serve as a benchmark?
With you it probably won’t be that expensive not because you act cleverly, but because you just want exactly all the fancy gimmicks that drive the price. That is legitimate. But it has nothing to do with experience.
By the way, figures like those from Knallkörper are just the building of the house, no furniture and no garden. They then went with tough comparisons of offers approaching 1600€/sqm. Depending on how you calculate (+ kitchen + this and that, etc.), of course you end up higher too. But here it was about construction costs.