The
mfg
can be left out. It doesn’t fit with the rest.
What I would like to add:
I assume that someone who is planning a house thinks about how they want to live, incorporates experience (most have probably already lived somewhere?) and accordingly sets their priorities.
Now they put their idea on paper, turn to a forum and look forward to comments and constructive criticism. CONSTRUCTIVE.
That also came from some. Someone is happy about that. And some even questioned things. Someone is even happier about that. But there were also others who obviously just felt like bashing – at least someone understood it that way. And someone doesn’t like that. That can cause someone to get snappy, which of course is just as little constructive and stupid. But someone is only human, SORRY.
A culture of conversation in these lands hardly exists anymore. At least I am glad to be able to share in the other person’s thoughts, get to know their motives and then, if they want (in this case for example), contribute my suggestions constructively. For me, constructive means that when I criticize, I also think about what I myself could change about the point of criticism. ME. That does not mean that I have to impose MY point of view on the OTHER.
But that also means that I really have to engage with the other person and take time. If I don’t want or can’t do that, I just leave it. AT LEAST I.
Well, that probably never really works in a forum like this and maybe can’t.
Oh, and up there someone talks about respecting?