@ windows: Plastic or anthracite - I wouldn't recommend combining them.
We have about 20 sqm of anthracite plastic windows and doors on the east, south, and west. The sun really hits them hard. But nothing cracks, and nothing is warped either. We are now in the 6th year...
With wooden windows, people say that they warp and need to be repainted regularly. So where is the bigger evil now?
Ventilation is great in principle, but these things are loud. At night we turn them off upstairs and have to run them at 3 during the day (to keep the circulation going),
Hm... well, our ventilation would also be loud at 3. And I couldn’t fall asleep if it was rushing. But I don’t have to, because it doesn’t have to run constantly. It runs for one hour in the evening, at night when everyone is in deep sleep, and in the morning when we leave the house. Since the plumbers set it up like that back then and we haven’t suffocated in stuffiness yet, I wonder why you have so much trouble with the ventilation.