If you don’t mind a step to the balcony, then go ahead, but it should be in the plan. Unfortunately, there have already been disappointed builders here several times because they overlooked this detail. The floor construction on the upper floor can be raised to come out on one level. But that also means a low room height and one more stair step if the stairs are not to become steeper. The additional stair step also makes the staircase longer, which again affects the floor plan and this is not always positive for the floor plan. Even such small details can influence your rough planning.
That’s exactly how it is and from personal experience you know that and therefore pass it on to people like you who have not yet experienced it! And for this very reason, the following could lead to the realization that seemingly insignificant circumstances can bring unforeseen consequences:
The thing with the parapet height was actually not directed at you and your hint was so important/interesting to me that I immediately told my wife, because I hadn’t thought of it before.
It is therefore quite surprising when one reads that the apparently inexperienced builder has come to this attitude:
I thought practical tips would be given here. ......that is filtered out anyway.
...and as a participant you know that as a layman you apparently do not know the impact and meaning of some circumstances you consider unnecessary. It is not about attacking you because you could have come earlier or maybe even want three gables but you must also be allowed to say that. It is clearly about the fact that an inexperienced customer was presented with a really weak design here, which you yourself now attribute the quality to, only to be slightly adjusted in small details. But the crux lies exactly where you vehemently reject it, namely also in the timely, consistent, and precise planning of the - real - pieces of furniture. Everything in your build has an impact and it must be considered as best as possible BEFOREHAND. If the door is 20 cm too far left or the window too far right, that can be very annoying later or even lead to structural correction because you get frustrated about it. A door opening on the wrong side or the botched planning of the dressing room on the upper floor would cost you a lot of money to make it look half decent and probably always annoy you. In a clever plan, a inexpensive Pax fits; in a less clever one, maybe a carpenter’s piece for five times the price has to be installed, etc. Suspecting resentment here deprives you of help that you would otherwise have to pay for dearly and without even knowing if you are well served (see current planning). And precisely because one has to keep drilling the same thick boards again and again here, the participants say it directly because the same thing has been said 100 times before. You are not the first here, so you should not despair at the clarity of some statements, but rather ask yourself why they were so clearly expressed. We do not criticize you, but your planner!!! And he gets paid by you and may well make more effort so that you get your “dream house.” We are on your side, therefore the criticism of the plan. From the corner of the comment you experienced as extremely bad now comes a design, made with great effort AND imagination as a gift for you, which might make clear to you what a poor job your planner has done so far. Exactly the same OP has already told you this so clearly about your previous design, which you did not want to hear. So don’t drive people away but listen and think through every, even critical comment objectively without dismissing it too quickly from your layman’s corner, because someone took time for you. One of my favorite sayings is: “You can’t sing criticism,” and here the criticism was exclusively directed at the planner and his at least so far weak performance and certainly not at you. He gets paid for it and should therefore deliver better than a “hobby planner” in a layman’s forum. The planner of our general contractor was super friendly but professionally close to zero. As we later saw, he lived as unimaginatively as we ourselves never wanted to live. Fortunately, we got help and got strongly involved ourselves, so that we can now live nicely, albeit certainly not perfectly. My compliment. The important points of criticism and especially the staircase are very well solved here; building on this, something nice could now become possible..... for the OP. I especially like the staircase solution, as well as the offset at the end of the kitchen, and that also makes a pantry sensible if one wants it. With this plan, I would even consider completely omitting the door to the all-room, but everyone has their own preference and it certainly also depends on the feeling regarding children. Great!