I once knew someone for whom the special repayment was the highest priority; every free euro went into it... then when a new car was needed, all bets were off. He definitely did not want to take out another loan. Also, there was never any money for anything else; the partner had to pay for that (meaning the "smaller" purchases like a new washing machine, which are inevitably needed from time to time, not the general living expenses).
You have to have a reserve of available money. I know the guideline of three months' salary. And I think many people building a house have to tap into this reserve as well. (Me too). And then it has to be replenished accordingly afterwards. But maybe you are in the fortunate position of not having had to use this reserve.
Hello,
Fortunately, we have the reserve secured here because, on average over the year, we never had to touch the three months' salary. We are conservative with consumption; if we cannot pay cash, we don't buy it. It works quite well, for example, we were also able to pay for my wife's car in cash. The only things that sometimes get postponed and should be deposited into the account later are, for example, cosmetic repairs and renovations on the house: driveway, facade painting, new kitchen window, etc. And I will have to forgo the new conservatory in the next five years (in time for my 50th). This also serves as self-discipline; otherwise, you lose the sense for expenses.
Since we have two small children (3 and 1), my wife is currently not earning. She will start again in October. If you will, all expenses are made from my salary. Although, to be honest, I wouldn't want my wife's job with two toddlers at the moment...
The special repayment amounts to 5%, which I have always been able to manage so far. So, after just over 11 years, we have paid off the mortgage and the money pit belongs to us. However, I would not make the special repayment if I foresee getting into a liquidity problem.
And of course, this whole game only works because I live not in Munich but in the provinces of northern Germany.
Lars