Just as a thought, the children are already relatively old and independent, so a children's area with 2 "normal" rooms (16-20m2), a small kitchen, and a small bathroom could also be an option. This could later be used as an apartment for one of the children or, if necessary, as a granny flat. Maybe a design for a multi-generational house would be suitable here? It is made difficult by the fact that you can probably get a cellar quite cheaply, but in the existing house dimensions the residential cellar is too small for both children and the technical rooms. For your use, it would probably make sense to reduce to only 2 floors, possibly raising the ground floor slightly to really have the basement at ground level on the 1.6m slope on the south side. The building envelope does allow for somewhat more house width and depth, possibly also a cellar garage. This way the children could have their own basement and the parents their own ground floor.