You should be aware that the bank and the broker would even give you the green light with lower incomes and higher expenses.
A healthy financing is one that does not consume more than 1/3 of the monthly net income for housing. Always under the condition that the repayment is chosen so that it is finished by retirement. That is the rule that almost everyone here would probably agree with. You are within the rate there, but I also count the monthly additional costs, and with that you are clearly above it. Basically, the income will probably increase as well, so that in the next few years it will approach the healthy 1/3 again. But you have to feel comfortable with the burden.
You did not mention anything here about bonus, vacation pay, profit sharing, and so on. Hopefully, you did not state your annual net income divided by 12 months as income here, right? Or I missed it.
Your 780€ surplus will be quickly eaten up by childcare costs and the surrounding expenses for 2 children.
The topic of childcare and work model including income with children is your unknown factor.
Otherwise, one should not be misled by the age. The OP is not 25. The OP borrows much more than many here and only starts repayment once he has moved in. That does not happen at 33. He only starts repayment 2-3 years earlier than others, and that with under 3% repayment. That costs him at least 1 more year. So, the additional €150k loan only corresponds to an age advantage of 1-2 years.
But that is just my personal opinion. The important thing is in the 2nd paragraph.