Worrier84
2021-04-07 11:12:12
- #1
Children are a gift and not a problem, people - when the house is built and there’s offspring, do you really think you won’t manage anymore? You then structure your life around the mortgage/house and just have to make some compromises.
Sure you always manage, but there is a difference between "managing" and "being happy." And nowhere here is it written that children are a problem. Not at all. I don’t understand why one has to rush the house purchase (unless it’s a mega bargain) instead of first adjusting to the new setting and seeing how new needs/perspectives develop. What’s 1-2 years of waiting compared to the probably decades-long repayment of the loan.