The rate is once again too low. It should be 3% repayment for that amount. That makes exactly €2000 + €400 monthly ancillary costs. If you can and want to manage that with 1-2 children over 26 years, then go for it. Otherwise, build smaller.
Why 26 years? Both are 32, meaning they still have 35 years until retirement age of 67! And what you always somehow don't factor in is that the rate is fixed. It doesn't change over the fixed interest period (let's say 15 years). Incomes naturally rise, if nothing gets in the way. Let's fast forward:
15 years with a repayment of €1,800 at 1% interest means with a loan amount of €553k (minus €18k KFW): 2.906% repayment and a remaining debt of €293k.
The couple is now 47 years old, earns double, and (without property value increase) has already achieved something. In the best case, the rate stays the same now, but they earn significantly more money. Important: They have already built up around €324k in assets (repayment) plus the equity of €120k, making €444k in the property, which (without increase in value) is worth €691k. Loan-to-value ratio now at 42% – great for a follow-up loan.
If you now (we're writing the year 2036) get a follow-up loan of €293,000 at 4.2% interest, you can take another 20 years and happily continue to repay €1,800, ultimately being debt-free in 2056. Or you increase the rate after 15 years and repay a bit more because €1,800 by then feels much less severe on the wallet.
My opinion: If you have saved the equity, you are also ready to tighten your belt over the next 15 years. That is, however, the big question.