Is financing feasible or are we overextending ourselves?

Speak out? For us, this is no joke.

You can't handle the truth. Dad will sort it out. Hope he builds according to the latest standard.

One should not build according to the budget anyway, but according to the needs.

??? Build according to needs and then there is no money left if the budget doesn't fit? I also have the need for a house again and once again a Porsche or Lambo - unfortunately my budget doesn't allow either at the moment. So it became the apartment... Rarely have I read such nonsense, sorry. Budget before needs. If both don't match, you can adjust both screws (but the budget is rather limited). Needs can always be adapted if you want. The architect does nothing else. He tries to reconcile the needs with the given budget.

You can't stand the truth. Dad will take care of it. Hopefully he builds according to the latest standard.

I'm too old and lack the desire and time for this kind of childishness and insinuations. If you can't reconcile a reasonable approach with your discussion culture, okay. I really rarely use the ignore function in forums, but please. Take care.

I'm too old and lack the desire and time for such kindergarten and insinuations. I really rarely use the Ignore function in forums, but please. Take care.

The construction is doomed to fail. Anyone who already has to haggle over every tile. Oh dear

If neither matches, you can adjust both screws (though the budget is rather limited). The needs can always be adapted if desired.

That's exactly how we act too. If we can't get the project within budget, it gets cut. And if that still doesn't fit, we are "man" enough to say that it won't work. But we're not there yet.

Speak your mind? For us, this is no joke.

To fairly assess whether the whole thing is possible, I just wanted to also explain how we envision the implementation, where we intend to save, and what we plan to do ourselves. Only in this way can one estimate if the whole thing will work.

The suggestions about what we forgot to consider, we discussed and estimated the costs. Where was there a turning point?

Yes, but you start the thread with completely different assumptions. Of course, if you get everything for free, as a gift, or "for a crate of beer," then that’s great and it will somehow turn into a house.

Maybe you should have mentioned this small but not unimportant detail at the very beginning.