Guys, please stay serious... I am fully occupied with my professional life, so I actually don't want to have any issues in my private life.
Let's stay grounded! I would say: your entire personal life is a construction site, so you escape into work. If what you have written so far is really true (mother asks where you are at 10 PM; dad wants an overview of your finances) Personally, too many words like guilt and gratitude come to mind... man, man... I really feel sorry for you. You can't help your parents, but as an adult, you have to let go of your inner child, recognize it, and differentiate it. You are an adult, and your parents should meet you on equal terms.