That it is mostly difficult for people in this forum to relate to old houses is nothing new. There’s rather little practical advice and people quickly tend to recommend demolition instead. You can also live very comfortably in houses that are older than five years and don’t have more glass than an aquarium. :D
That’s a good point and I honestly wasn’t aware of that.
Our new build isn’t exactly the aquarium type either, but I know what you mean. :)
(I immediately fell in love with the mudroom and the wood stove in the kitchen.)
Funny, my sister did too. She said right away that if we throw out the wood stove, we should tell her where we’re throwing it. ;)
In the virtual tour it sometimes looks extremely convoluted and super cramped, e.g. in the kitchen, in the entrance area. I suspect the camera distorts a lot there, but I can’t read anything to the contrary from the plans either because they’re not properly dimensioned. Sure, old building, maybe they did things differently back then or the original plans got lost. But that also makes it hard to contribute anything meaningful by remote diagnosis.
In reality it feels much more open than in the 3D plan. You get a better impression when you look at it as intended, namely in 3D. We viewed the house remotely with the Oculus Quest 2 before we went there. It feels completely different then. But that only works until you feel nauseous. :D
I don’t understand the fuss about confidentiality at all. Every house is posted online here with its address, nobody is bothered, why should they be. My suburb Port Kennedy, just search on realestate dot com dot au. A house here just doesn’t have the same importance as in Germany, you move when circumstances require it and you don’t expect a “dream home” every single time. Not to mention, people here also don’t have the sometimes very exaggerated expectations like in Germany.
Are you afraid someone will snatch it away from you? Then I probably wouldn’t post my plans here for discussion. You can also buy a house without having x unknown people pitching their opinions to you. Everyone who answers has a different motivation, which doesn’t necessarily concern you.
A house can never be worth so much that you make it your life’s mission. Your child will live on a construction site for a long time, and the parents are busy with other things than the child.
I completely understand that you don’t want to stay where you built, that would be hell for me too. But I wouldn’t chase the dream, main thing is to get away, where it’s quieter, definitely not another new development area, that trouble is preprogrammed. On the other hand, it’s not fun either to share the environment with long-established old-timers, they are very set in their ways and new, unfamiliar things often spark neighborhood disputes. I’m 70+, but not the grandma type, I don’t live like one, neither did my parents.
The fear of it being snatched away was actually only a very minor factor. I just find it desirable from a data protection perspective not to have my real address linked to an internet pseudonym. There are just very, very crazy people out there and you don’t have to tempt fate. You can kind of see this a bit from the fact that people make the effort to find out the address of a property. Everyone can see it how they want, I still find it creepy. Especially since finding out the address brought no added value for the discussion (which was already largely off topic). Having the address instead of simply “Saarpfalzkreis” gives only marginally more information about – well, about what exactly? That we might live opposite a bakery (which btw no longer exists)? – Wow.
Sorry yes, there comes the amateur psychology.
Yeah, I notice that. Unfortunately, I can take amateur psychologists a lot less seriously since I met a trained psychologist for a few years. You learn a lot about yourself. And about amateur psychologists. You should try it sometime too.