First of all, thank you again for the constructive criticism; it provides us with many valuable points to consider.
To address some discussion points...
- Why haven’t we saved more so far? It has been a combination of not wanting to and not being able to in the past. Our incomes were significantly lower until 1-2 years ago; add to that an expensive wedding and costly honeymoon. We have chosen this consciously, as we do not want to take long-distance trips with children. There is no backlog of investments at our end; on the contrary, everything is new and up to date, our cars, kitchen equipment, electrical appliances, etc.
- The topic of managerial position and personal contribution: I find this objection very good and justified; however, no overtime is desired in our case, and any overtime hours that accrue can be compensated. The overtime I have accumulated so far I could save up, as well as some vacation days. Currently, 200 hours and 20 + 30 new vacation days are available. I think by the time we come to our personal contributions, 300 hours and 60 vacation days will be realistic.
- Income with children, the calculation with parental allowance has already been made above and is essentially correct; some additional optimization is possible through tax planning before parental leave. After parental leave, my wife will continue working at 60%; due to the tax classes, etc., the income will remain at a similar level, although of course 1-2 children will also cost money.
- Naturally, we have also considered waiting 1-2 years and then tackling the matter with more equity. However, we have some concerns here:
1. Our additional equity will, in our estimation, go toward significantly higher prices by then (land costs are currently rising massively; the plot we found is a bargain, and building the house itself is becoming increasingly expensive).
2. We are not getting younger and want to have children only once the house is finished; if we were to bring that forward, we would need more space and have higher rental expenses, which does not really move us forward much.
- Can we take out a loan elsewhere? Theoretically yes, but we don’t want to. An unsecured employer loan of up to €80,000 at 1.05% would be possible.
- I also find the critical consideration of the fixed interest rate good. Even though it is hard for me to write this, as an only child, I will receive a larger inheritance over the next 10-15 years (even though I hope it will not be so, realistically it will be). In this sense, I will already be transferred the house this year (market value approx. €500K, 2,500 sqm plot). However, I do not want to encumber it, and a right of residence will be registered, which naturally also greatly limits the possibility of encumbrance. However, I would like to wait with the transfer because I want to take advantage of the KfW conditions for the first-time purchase of property.
That’s it to shed some light on the situation.