The plan is to do a lot of the work ourselves and subcontract the rest.
We did exactly the same. However, we had the shell built and did the rest ourselves (except for screed and underfloor heating) and subcontracted everything individually. We built 9.5m*10.5m and 165 sqm of living / usable space without the attic. The attic is developed. So, a total of 210 sqm of space within the thermal envelope.
That brings us to about €1400/sqm (but in Saxony).
For better assessment regarding "standard," since I have no idea what medium standard is:
Masonry:
- 24cm calcium silicate masonry with 032 16cm ETICS
- 25cm waterproof concrete base slab
- inside all walls with 17.5cm calcium silicate
- attic gypsum board walls
Roof:
- 5cm on-rafter insulation, glazed clay roof tiles
- 4 large Velux tilt/turn roof windows
- 2 dormers with real slate
Windows:
- triple-glazed plastic windows
- 2x 2m balcony doors
Interior:
- underfloor heating in the entire house
- gas boiler
- ground floor completely tiled (75€/sqm materials)
- upper floor completely laminate
- 2x duplex CAT7 in every room
- 180 sockets total
Sanitary:
2 bathrooms (6 sqm and 10 sqm), each with fully tiled shower, and tub in the larger bathroom
Attic:
- fully developed and insulated.
No smart home stuff.
Maybe this info helps you with the assessment
what is upscale standard?