Rural in NRW built (Eifel):
160 sqm + double garage (45 sqm)
no basement
Solid construction Poroton
Geothermal heat pump
Underfloor heating
Electric roller shutters
Central controlled residential ventilation
100 sqm tiles, 60 sqm vinyl
Exterior facade 80% premium scratch plaster, 20% natural stone/rubble masonry.
235,000 € = approx. 1470 € per sqm
Calculated without additional costs (35,000 €) without land and without outdoor facilities (18,000 €) and of course without kitchen etc.
With a similarly high proportion of own work as planned by the original poster, including heating, sanitary, electrical, floor/roof insulation, drywall, wallpapering + painting etc. done by ourselves.
Time spent over 1.2 years:
approx. 35 hours/week by me
approx. 20 hours per week by my wife
approx. 1000 hours by construction helpers