Just make a completely subjective amateur outline about the way you want to live, what you like to do, pictures, what appeals to you, how it could be in 10, 20, 40 years, what might still be the same then, what could change. Have fun doing it. Then you have a bundle of information and know that it all somehow doesn’t fit together. No problem, because now priorities will be set. And then you have a communicable idea of your life and look for the matching housing. Now you walk very focused through model homes and talk to providers. Anyone who doesn’t listen and understand is out of the selection. No compromises in forming your will. If something is too expensive, you can see how to get closest to the idea behind it.
That was our approach model. What came out exceeded all our expectations.