It is basically the standard floor plan.
Then I’ll ask the question again differently: how much different would the floor plan have looked if ONLY your wishes had been implemented WITHOUT building on a draft design; or rather, how well do you still recognize your wishes in it?
I’m not an expert in the field but setback distance sounds illogical.
That is called a causal connection
The 3m is not a fixed divine measurement, but can certainly increase if 1/2H is more than 3m (which I do not expect here though). More likely applicable here is the full storey trap – which can be mitigated by not fully exploiting the 45° roof pitch.
Above all, according to the introduction text it is only 87 cm knee wall raw construction measure.
If I add an unusual 18 cm floor construction today, there are still 69 cm left (and with 45° easy to calculate 31 cm front wall, until you “fill” 1m kneewall on the inside).