Refinance existing loans with a construction loan

Nobody told us in advance that our story is barely or not at all feasible.

These are all salespeople. And as a salesperson for financing, you don't say "Oh no, let's better not do that." You try first and then say "We can't understand that, we tried EVERYTHING," which means "Shit, earned nothing, but it was worth a try."

Well, you have to adjust the house to your finances. Have you ever asked the other way around what the bank will give you?

We asked before planning the house what we could finance. Everything else would be stupid.

These are all salespeople. And as a salesperson for financing, you don't say "Oh no, we'd better not do that." First try, and then "We can't understand it, we tried EVERYTHING," which means "Shit, earned nothing, but it was worth a try."

But that doesn't help us. The dream of the house is now being destroyed bit by bit. Truly a great show

Find a fee-based advisor and ask them what works. It costs money, but they work for you. And honestly: better this way than a forced auction. I know society today creates incredible pressure through "must-have." But without property, you are truly freer.

What is a fee-based financial advisor?

The term was calculated with 40 years, by the way. That's not realistic, is it? Could that perhaps also be a reason?