hampshire
2019-03-13 17:09:14
- #1
Our motto was always: We feed whatever comes. Two came.
We are both 35 years old and still consciously childless - precisely because we don't have the house yet (completion in September). For us, it was out of the question to build with a child at our side. On the one hand, we want to have two incomes available during the initial phase of financing, and on the other hand, building the house will demand everything from both of us; every free hand and minute will simply be needed, and a child would (still) be in the way.
We accept the risk that starting a family at 36/37 years old might require "more attempts" than at 26/27 years old. As a personnel officer, I now know enough female colleagues who became mothers without any problems at 41 or 42 and had healthy children. Same with my sister-in-law. That at least gives some hope.
Assuming that despite everything modern medicine offers, it does not work out for us, we would probably have to accept that. But I can still worry enough about that later. Not before.
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